Why Do Cats Knead Their Owners?

What exactly is cat kneading?

Kneading is a repetitive action a cat makes; a rhythmic motion where they push their paws into a soft surface, alternating from one paw to the other.

During this activity, they push in and out of the soft surface with their paws. In some cases, they extend their claws before settling down as they push on the surface and retract them while pulling back.

Kneading is adorable to watch, but why do cats and kittens knead their owners? Despite its beauty, kneading can become uncomfortable at times.

When cats knead on your lap, their extended claws which may cause some pain at times.

Sous Chef Cat Kneading Dough

Why do cats knead things with their paws? Well, some cats only use the forepaws, while others utilize all four paws.

This results in a fascinating dance that gets cats so relaxed that at times even causes them to drool. While kneading, cats may push upon a person, a soft pillow, soft carpeting, or a couch.

This is a practice performed by most cats, whose motions make the cat look as though it’s kneading dough.

When your cat begins to knead, you can gently guide it into a position where it is lying on its side. In this position, the cat can relax and even fall asleep. On the other

hand, you can distract the cat with a toy when you notice that it wants to start kneading and purring. It will happily go after the toy and forget all about its kneading activities.

So What makes cats knead?

Kneading is instinctive in cats. it is a practice that kittens perform shortly after they are born.There are a few reasons why they do this:

  • Indicating relaxation
  • Stimulate the production of milk from the mammary glands
  • Relaxing themselves after going through stressful situations
  • Marking their human owners. Cats are territorial creatures. Therefore, they will knead on their humans so as to mark them with sweat from glands in their paws.

One theory is that the behavior of kneading began with wild cats that built places to nest using grass and leaves.

They built these nests as places to give birth in and rest afterward. This is also where they spent their time resting after a day of hunting.

Today, you can observe cats kneading right before they settle down to sleep. Also, it has been observed that female cats knead more often as they go into heat.

Why Do Cats Knead Their Owners?

Remember a cat’s favorite place is your lap. Therefore, you are very likely to feel cat kneading up close and personal. Some cats are quite territorial of their owners, so

You may find your cat kneading on you when you are wearing a sweatshirt, a woolen shawl, or any other soft and supple fabric.

This is because these types of materials make great sleeping surfaces. Just as you and I fluff up our pillows and blankets just before sleeping, cats knead surfaces to make them more comfortable to sleep on.

When Cats are kneading and biting their owners, they are basically saying that they really love you! . It is their way of flattering you.

Despite the pain caused by claws scratching your lap, you should know that your cat simply enjoys your company. Some cats don’t extend their claws while kneading.

However, if yours does, try to trim its nails so they won’t hurt you as the cat kneads on your lap.

An alternative to this is placing a thick blanket or towel on your lap before your cat jumps on their favorite lap to sleep on. This way, it can show you affection without causing you discomfort or ripping up your clothes.

Some cats knead on their owner to reminisce on its glorious days as a kitten. It is well known that kittens knead their mother’s bellies so that she can produce more milk.

This behavior can extend well into adulthood. Your lap is just as warm as their mother’s belly was.

Therefore, one that is kneading on you is simply reliving experiences of its happy kittenhood. Another observation that has been made is that female cats will knead to indicate that they are ready to mate.

kneading can become bothersome. If your cat loves it just a bit too much, it can become a hassle.

Do try to gently pick up the cat and place it on another surface such as the sofa . do not punish your cat for kneading. It is an instinctive practice that it thoroughly enjoys.

Therefore, let your cat knead in peace and enjoy it.

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11 thoughts on “Why Do Cats Knead Their Owners?

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  2. AvatarShiralee Barrow

    Hi my cat also neads me also with her back paws and with a flick out with one back paw with eyes blacked out I call it blissing out its so gentle I do have tummy problems and watch her carefully feeding around and surching in different spots and really working on them it is so cute I feel very privileged I do believe she understands something wrong in my tummy.

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    1. AvatarCindy

      Hi there! One of my cats in particular kneads me a lot and it seems as though he is really trying to help me. He looks so wise and caring like a little masseur! Also, he doesn’t do it with his claws so I just feel the massage part of it. I always thank him and give him lots of scratches and pets afterward so I’m sure that let’s him know I like it.

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  3. AvatarJo Ann

    Makes sense! Thank you. I have a new kitten and he kneads all over me, rubs, rolls on me…he loves me! My year old boy (cat) was never this affectionate, so this a huge change.

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  4. AvatarMads

    My cat I raised and bottle fed when he was a little baby. He was a feral cat that I took in along with his siblings. The one I speak of has extreme kneading problems. I’ve had cats that do this but not on the level he does. Whenever he’s near me he will try to get close and squeeze on to my lap or whatever and knead my freaking skin out. I might have to cut his claws because he kneads hard and deep and doesn’t mind doing it on my skin, in fact that’s what he always aims for is my skin even when I put his paws somewhere else he ends up back at my bare skin. He’ll constantly move and knead to the point where I always have to kick him out of bed because it’s a actual problem and I can’t sleep or do whatever I’m trying to do. I know the kitties love me because I was the one who raised them but I wish this guy would settle down and chill out a bit lol cuz I wouldnt mind him chilling and laying with me but he can never just do that. He can go all day kneading me non stop and constantly moving around pushing up all over me. Idk what to do I think he knows I don’t like him doing it on my skin and just doesn’t care.

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    1. Avatarjean grey

      Teehee, so sweet.

      I had the same problem with my kitty. Something I did was condition her to learn the word, “careful!” Anytime she kneads too hard with her claws, I gently say “CAREful, CAREful!” as I hold her little paws in my hand and rub them gently. Over 2-3 weeks, she began to understand what it meant, and she always adjusts mindfully to just using her paws, not claws.

      My girl still gets crazy while kneading, using her claws almost violently– it’s not her fault, she just gets really into it. I always react and even exaggerate a jumpy motion and say softly, “Ouch, kitten, ouchies!” and of course, “CAREful, kitten, CAAAREful.”

      I enlarge my eyes, smiling, while I say “Ouchies,” and “CAREful;” and when she notices and becomes more gentle, I blink my eyes slowly at her and say, “thaaaaank you, kitten.” She totally understands me.

      They are unbelievable communicators: so receptive, intuitive, and they always respond to kindness with kindness and understanding. It’s all about talking to your crazy boy nicely, and also expression through your eyes. He will learn what pain looks like if you express it with your eyes and your language, especially tone of voice. And, always a soft, “thaaank youu,” is like a reward to them.

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  5. AvatarPaul Matthews

    My cat gives me a free massage every morning. He kneads with all four feet going from my neck down to my lower back, up and down, purring loudly the whole time. . This can go on for 10-15 minutes some days. It’s hysterical and feels great. I’m not sure where he went to massage school, but he’s good! A great way to wake up.

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  6. AvatarAckie Scott

    My cat loves to knead on my lap. But I put a blanket on first he kneads for awhile then goes to sleep. March 24 2019 Jackie Scott

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